
Why Boundaries Are the Choreography of Love
Here’s what nobody tells you about relationships: total freedom kills connection. We’ve been taught to believe that love means “no limits,” as if real love requires endless tolerance. That’s not love; that’s codependency. The best relationships grow from thoughtful boundaries, not endless flexibility. The Dance of Connection In partner dance, from Argentine tango to bachata, salsa, and contact improvisation, the river and rock metaphor describes how connection works. Let’s set the record straight: this isn’t one partner as order, the other as chaos....